The goal
Invest in my relationship with my partner by this time next year
Make it yours: change the highlighted parts, the numbers and the wording. In Ascanti the dates are set from the quarter you start in.
How you'll know you got there
Regular dates, a weekly check-in we both value, and shared plans for the year ahead.
Why this works
Strong relationships run on small, frequent moments of attention more than big romantic gestures. This plan protects regular time together, adds a simple weekly check-in to talk about how things are going, and builds in new shared experiences, which help keep a long relationship from running on autopilot.
Milestones
One checkpoint for each of the first three quarters. The goal itself lands in the fourth.
- Quarter 1Rhythm set: a weekly check-in and regular date nights in the calendar
- Quarter 2Something new: a shared experience or trip we've both wanted
- Quarter 3Looking ahead: next year's shared goals talked through and written down
Key results
Numbers you can check at any point to see whether you're on track.
- Date nights: 24 dates
- Weekly check-ins held: 45 check-ins
Starter habits
Weekly check-in: what went well, what's coming up
1 time / week · weekly habitDo one small, thoughtful thing
2 times / week · weekly habit
Your first week
- Suggest a weekly check-in time to my partner
- Book the next date night
- Write down 3 things I'd like us to do together this year
- Agree a regular phone-free time together
- Plan one small surprise for this week
Use it in Ascanti
Pick this template in Goals, adjust the numbers and dates, untick anything you don't want, and Ascanti creates the goal with its milestones, key results, habits and week-one tasks in one step. Progress on the tasks and key results rolls up to the goal.
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